Do you think the Jericho-Legends thing was disappointing?
Before everybody thought it was him vs Stone cold or Hulk Hogan and now geuss what. Its Jimmy Snuka, Roddy Piper and Steamboat vs Jericho. BORING.
It was a joke, not just because Stone Cold wasn't there but because the legends throw three punches and Jericho gets away. The segment was just so cheap and useless.
Many relationship experts claim that men innately want to please their wives or the women in their lives. However, due to various reasons, including instinctive behavior, men seem to be more likely to cheat than women.
If you do not want the man in your life to go astray and spend the night in another woman's bed, you need to know the underlying reasons why they start an affair in the first place. Once you find out the reasons behind your husband's or boyfriend's cheating, you can probably prevent the problem from completely ruining your relationship.
1. Humdrum Sex Life
Women think that they have to do acrobatics or make their copulation sessions with their man to be the best every time in order to prevent their men from looking for other vixens in bed. However, according to studies, the quality of sex is not really an issue. In fact, some men reveal that their mistresses do not necessarily have more sexual prowess than their wives or girlfriends. The only difference is that the "other woman" is usually more willing to make love more frequently.
So for the wives out there, better ditch the "I have a headache" excuse if you do not want your man to cheat. Besides, making love might help in easing tension headaches away.
2. I Can, Therefore I Will
Another top reason why men have multiple partners is that they can. Having someone sexy, other than his wife or girlfriend, who throws herself on him can be a very tempting opportunity that most men just can't say no to.
Hiring a private detective to watch over your man is not really a very effective method of preventing an affair. What you can do is to minimize instances in which your husband can have an opportunity to philander. So when he invites you to his office party or a gathering with his friends, you may want to drop that book or whatever you are doing (if it's not really that important) in order to spend time with him.
3. Lack Of Communication
Another excuse that many men use to justify their affair is the lack of communication with his girlfriend or wife. Men fall in love with mistresses because these women know how to show support, enthusiasm and genuine interest in what their men say or talk about. Moreover, men also despise the I'm-not-talking-to-you attitude of their wives whenever men commit even the minutest mistakes.
Keep your man from looking for other women by maintaining an open and cordial communication with him. Nagging or giving him the silent treatment is not always effective in letting your emotions and points across. It would be a lot better if you just talk things over with your hubby so that there are no misunderstandings.
4. The More The Merrier
One study also shows that a man whose friends cheat is also most likely to cheat. It seems that when it comes illicit affairs, men tend to follow what their friends do or say. Maybe an affair can help boost a man's ego. Or men simply do not outgrow peer pressure.
In order to keep your man from cheating, you also need to take care of yourself. Keep him interested in you by making yourself look young and beautiful. You really do not have to undergo cosmetic surgeries just to look alluring to your man. Just eat right, exercise regularly and make use of natural products to enhance your "assets" and reduce your "liabilities".
If you have small breasts, you can make use of a breast enhancement cream, such as Clevastin, to help make your boobs look perkier, fuller and more attractive to your hubby or boyfriend. For more information about Clevastin, visit http://www.clevastin.com/
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Can a man and a woman be true friends?
My brother told me that guy and girl can't be true friends. That when a man is friend with a woman he is just waiting for the right moment to try to get her. So what do you think. Can the two be true friends?
Not unless he is totally not attracted to her, or has already been in a relationship with her that he felt was really over.
Most guys are just being friends, because they want sex from you. I had two different guys, I thought were best friends, and both eventually tried to have sex with me. When I refused, they thought I was wrong for rejecting them since they felt, I "led them on". All I was doing was treating them as any other friend. I never made any advances or anything to lead them on. We never even spoke of sex, nor did I even know that they were interested in me that way.
I was able to maintain a friendship with my ex boyfriend, but only until he got serious with someone else. Men do not see sex as emotionally as women. They separate feelings, from the act of sex, which is hard for most women to do. If they find you attractive, they automatically think about having sex with you. As long as that thought remains in their head, they will eventually try to have sex with you no matter what kind of friendship you thought you had.
By the way, Chris' quote from "When Harry Met Sally" is a good example of that.
The theme parks in Orlando lure millions of visitors every year from around the world. Before you begin your trip to Orlando, it will be good if you collect the information about the features of the Orlando theme parks and water park tickets. Instead of buying every single attractive tickets, buy the tickets like Orlando flex tickets which includes some of the top parks of Orlando. The collection of Orlando attractions such as Sea World of Florida, Busch Gardens Tampa Bay, Universal Studios Florida, Aquatica and Wet n Wild includes in Orlando flex tickets.
Orlando Flex Tickets expire after 14 days of first use. These tickets are available online at discounted rates. Decide number of days you want to reside in Orlando then opt for such tickets for there are 4-park Orlando flex tickets, 5-Park Orlando flex tickets, etc.
Islands of Adventure offer something for everyone. This island of Orlando is the combination of five different theme islands namely Marvel Super Hero Island, The Lost Continent, Jurassic Park, Seuss Landing and Toon Lagoon. Visitors come to see these islands through the entrance zone which is widely known as port of entry. The whole entrance area is filled with shopping venues and market places.
Get the most popular Florida Theme park Tickets such as Islands Of Adventure Tickets at hand and explore its islands which show unique entertaining attractions. Marvel Super Hero Island is an island of comic characters which can be seen live as heroes and villains. The exciting attraction includes the amazing adventure of Spider-Man, Dr. Doom's Fearfall, Incredible Hulk Coaster, and many more.
Toon Lagoon is the real play zone for kids and tots. The entire island is based on the attractive theme of on King Features Syndicate and Jay Ward comic strips. The Lost Continent presents beautifully the ancient myths and legends through its castles, warring dragons and frightening gods. The major attractions are dueling dragons, the eight voyages of Sindbad, the Mystic Fountain, the Flying Unicorn and so on. However, Jurassic Park and Seuss Landing have its other fascinating themes which motivates and caste a spell on the visitors.
Jurassic Park is famous for its enthralling attractions such as Jurassic Park River Adventure, Jurassic Park Discovery Center and the remains of dinosaurs. The Seuss Landing is the place where fanciful characters of Dr. Seuss's fairy tale come to live.
Islands of adventure keep entertaining its visitors and make perfect array to cater the people of all ages.
Without a doubt, WalMart is by far one of the largest employers in the North American continent. They built their very first store in 1962 and they are now the world's largest retailer.
If you are considering to apply for a job with them, check out their online application form. You need to make sure that you fill out the application truthfully and accurately. Another good thing to do is to read the legal disclaimers and the information required reminders, prior to filling out your application. Reading all that just makes it easier for you to apply because you will have gathered all of the information that they require from you. Information such as past work history, drivers license etc...
The first thing you will have to do is register so that you are provided with a username and password. Once you have done that, you can log in to the application form.
The form will ask you where you want to work, and what job position you prefer. Next thing to do is to fill out all of the personal information they are asking for, such as name, last name, address, telephone number, cellphone number, your drivers license and social security number. They also want to know about your availability to work. For example: If you want to work 7 days a week, or only weekdays or weekends or other specific days.
The form then moves on to your educational and work experience history. Make sure you fill this out very accurately and truthfully! Failing to do this could result in rejection of your application. So I recommend you take the time and make sure all dates are correct. The reason for leaving a past employer is also important. It is wise to keep the answer to that positive, simple and short.
Now that you have completed the application form, take some extra time and read over the form to check on spelling mistakes, grammar mistakes etc... . You may also have forgotten to fill out some information boxes. Also, check again that all dates and information about your education and previous jobs is accurate. WalMart values very much the honesty in prospective applicants. So, be honest and sincere about all of the information you are giving to them.
There is also a section with some additional questions. Again, answer these questions to the best of your knowledge and don`t lie.
Filling out the online application form should take you roughly 30 minutes. Before submitting the form, make sure to read it at least twice. It has to be complete!
After your submission you should hear back from them within about two weeks. In case you don't hear from them, do not hesitate to follow up. It shows them you are keen and very willing to work for them.
Now that you are reading this article you may want to consider another career. Perhaps a home based business that could earn you a 5 figure income, instead of a little more than $1000 that you would earn while working for WalMart.
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Can I fund raise outside of wal mart without having to pay wal mart?
I have a school fundraiser, and I was wondering if I could bike over to my friendly neighborhood wal mart and ask people to order junk. If I do, doI have to pay wal mart?
Fund raising for good causes is allowed. It just can't have anything to do with politics, religion, or anything like that.
But you MUST get the approval of the store manager. Or if the store manager is not there, the next highest member of management. Or else you will most likely be asked to leave.
Need to Heal your Broken Heart? Read On. Overcome Heartbreak and Learn the Illusive Secret of Happiness
By Carl “J.C.” Pantejo – Copyright 2007
(Author “My Friend Yu – The Prosperity Mentor,” Copyright August 2007. Pantejo - Y.N. Vurce Publishing.)
*Below is an excerpt from “My Friend Yu – The Prosperity Mentor: Book II. Release Date: December 2007/January 2008. Pantejo - Y.N. Vurce Publishing.
Being “in love” is wonderful. You smile more. You laugh spontaneously. Your step is livelier. Common, everyday things - activities you’ve done for years - seem wonderfully different. And all things are “right” in your world.
In other words, happiness is at an all-time high.
Then something happens…
…If you are heartbroken, if you are hurting, angry, depressed, or feel like everything doesn’t matter anymore, utterly hopeless, I truly empathize. Believe me, I’ve been there.
Heartbreak - the dark, soul-wrenching, and debilitating type – is not something I would wish upon anyone! It can paralyze and taint our minds with all things negative.
But there is hope. Really. And I urge you to read on.
Let me share some powerful thoughts with you; thoughts that helped me recover and heal my broken heart; thoughts that rebuilt my inner world; thoughts that nourished my self-esteem, reinstated my faith in the people around me and the world, and most importantly, allowed me to be able to love again.
- Heartbreak -
Maybe you spent weeks or even months secretly admiring someone from afar and finally summoned up the courage to ask her/him out – only to be flat out rejected
Maybe your lover does something ugly, abusive, or insensitive.
What if, with or without warning, your partner abandons you?
Maybe all was going well; then suddenly, a freak accident, war, or natural disaster takes the life of your partner – leaving you shocked, bewildered, and heartbroken.
What if your partner is stricken with an incurable illness?
Supposedly, the death of a loved one via a slow, chronic disease process gives you time to prepare for the inevitable heartbreak. There’s time to talk – whether she/he is coherent or not. When death finally comes, you’re supposed to tell yourself that the suffering has ended and she/he has gone to a better place.
But in my personal experience, the heartbreak is no less severe.
Anyway you put it, heartbreak sucks!
Why does it feel so bad? Because we suffer from severe withdrawal symptoms. The good, positive, and happy things in our lives; things that we thought we deserved, things that we counted on to be there (and enjoy) forever are taken away.
Emotionally and physically, we had grown accustomed to, looked forward to, and expected the wonderful, positive feelings and intimacies we used to share with our partner.
And now they’re gone.
Sometimes this happens abruptly; sometimes it’s a slow, painful process of your partner slipping away a little more each day. You try to stop it, but you know that you can’t make anyone do anything if they really don’t want to do it.
You feel helpless. You acquiesce. You demand. You cry. You scream. Sometimes, you destroy things, yourself, or other people.
Sadly, in spite of your uneducated efforts, the breakup occurs, and the heartbreak monster quickly begins to sit on your chest; sending nasty and ugly thoughts into your mind via its long, hideous tentacles.
In the case of a lost lover, your mind plays tricks on you. You start catching glimpses of your Ex in public everywhere! A familiar song triggers another flood of tears. You feel like nothing will ever fill the void left by the person you’ve spent so much of your life and emotions on.
You try to distract yourself with activities and friends, but it’s futile. The more you try to forget, the more you remember. You feel like “half a person” and you wonder if you’ll ever be “whole” again.
You are at the mercy of the ebb and flow of your self-pity and/or rage. Your self-esteem and self-control take wild, see-saw swings, moving from one extreme to the other because of some sensory trigger (i.e., something you see, hear, taste, smell, or touch reminds you of your loss); or sometimes, for no apparent reason, a grief session strikes totally at random.
After each wave of tearful convulsions, instead of feeling free, you feel more exhausted and forlorn.
Sometimes you’re strong. Sometimes you’re weak. Sometimes it’s easy (especially during the day when you’re busy at work) to resist contacting your Ex. But when things are quiet and you’re alone, the temptation is so strong!
Resist it. In your hurt state, it will only prolong the healing process.
Other people will keep saying that “time will heal your wounds” and that you’ll find someone else. But while in the depths of heartbreak, none of that advice is comforting. You appreciate your friends’ kind sympathies, but let’s face it, when you’re actively experiencing heartbreak, their advice – no matter how sound it is, seems like a drop of ineffective medicine in the ocean of your sadness.
The experience of heartbreak is truly the antithesis of being “in love.”
The feelings of immense loss, sadness, depression, and anger can be overwhelming.
It took me years of mistakes and a long track record of heartbreaks to finally realize that I was pretty stupid on this subject. I admitted to myself that all my personal methods of coping were inevitably ineffective and usually destructive (to me or to someone else).
I needed knowledge and insight. And I needed it badly!
I did several internet searches on “healing, treatment, heartbreak, heartbroken, etc.” and spent days reading countless articles and references about broken hearts and recommended remedies.
Some articles were obviously from spurned lovers who were still angry and venting. Many articles were spiritual. Other articles gave stringent, cookbook instructions that sounded more academic - almost sterile, than practical.
For me, heartbreak – and how to recover from it – has been a long time coming. I tried all the recommended practices:
I re-experienced the bad feelings and let myself cry – something not easy for a man. I had to find secluded places or people I was comfortable with and could trust. Then I cried like a baby.
I tried to distract myself with other activities.
I made a list of all the bad things my Ex-lover did and tried to remember them whenever I was lonely and wrestling with the idea of contacting her again.
I wrote an unsent grief letter to my Ex, reading it many times a week to nurture any fledgling feelings of strength and recovery.
I made a list of our good times, trying to appreciate the joy and lessons learned from the relationship.
Unfortunately, these and other conventional practices didn’t work for me. I still felt crappy, empty.
I desperately waited for “The Sign” - the feeling that I’ll finally be alright; the belief in my innate worthiness; the feeling of certainty, direction, and confidence; and most importantly, the feeling that love will enter my life again.
But, after all my attempts at fixing my broken heart in the normal ways failed, I still felt bad, like it was so hopeless.
Here I was: miserably heartbroken, missing all the feelings of being in love, and impervious to the treatments, normal practices, and recommendations for healing in such situations.
It’s taken many heartbreaks (and even more mistakes at trying to cope) to finally realize that I needed to learn better ways to recover, to get over it permanently.
Finally, after reading, reading, and more reading, the veil of mystery over heartbreak and its cure was slowly being lifted.
- The Only Thing That Worked For Me. And It Can Work For You! -
Let me share with you the only way I’ve found to cure my own broken heart.
Please read it slowly and carefully. Read it a few times. Commit it to memory. Remember it, especially when you feel a wave of negative emotion ready to engulf you again. Use it to prevent any potential relapses of self-pity or rage.
Here goes…
In order to take back control of your emotions (and life), you need to learn what the cause of being “in love” is. Only then can you understand what being “in love” really is. These are the first steps in effectively making your way back to happy living.
- The Cause of Being “In Love” -
Realize this: “You Can’t Be “In Love” Unless YOU Love!”
In other words: IT IS YOU THAT CAUSES YOUR OWN FEELINGS OF BEING IN LOVE - NO ONE ELSE. PERIOD. NOTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF CAUSES YOUR OWN FEELINGS. YOU CAN’T BE “IN LOVE” UNLESS YOU ARE LOVING.
Think of it. It is the person doing the loving that experiences the feelings of being “in love.” If you don’t think of a person in a loving way, you don’t get the feelings of being “in love.”
Skeptical?
- Just Another Person In The Elevator -
Imagine this. You are in a public elevator with a stranger. Automatically, you immediately make an assessment and quickly register your impressions of this stranger in your mind.
You decide that 1) she/he is not a threat, 2) is not particularly attractive or unattractive, and 3) that you can quit the evaluation and move on with your day. In short, the other person is neutral; just another person in the elevator.
Are you “in love” with this person, the neutral stranger? Of course not! Why? BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE NOT TO THINK OF THAT PERSON IN A LOVING WAY.
Do you get my point? Believe it or not, you have total control of your love and feelings of being “in love.”
This fact escaped me for decades. It’s still a mystery to most people.
The majority of people in the world believe that love emanates from outside themselves. They give away their powerful, personal gift of choice; letting other people control them.
I know what you’re saying. If healing a broken heart was as simple as choosing to feel loving or not loving, why doesn’t everyone do it?
Many reasons. First, the victim mentality runs rampant in our world. It is in every place, community, and society. It is easy. It relinquishes responsibility and falsely places the blame on someone else. It is common; and therefore, easy to find others to commiserate with. It doesn’t take any courage to be a victim.
Secondly, we are conditioned from an early age by many stories of love and romance written in the past that we can’t choose who we fall in love with. It’s as though we are all just fish that get “hooked” on someone. We fall into the “love trap” and can’t (or won’t) try to climb out. In short, almost everyone thinks love and being “in love” is fatalistic, not within the control of the individual participants.
Lastly, since loving and being “in love” is such a special, highly personal experience, many people think they’re alone – both during the happiness of love (AND during the sadness of heartbreak).
The feeling is so unique, that they feel like the experience of this kind of special love will never happen again.
What happens next? They cling desperately to the relationship, even if it’s obviously destructive in other people’s eyes. They feel inadequate and suspicious. They continually search for clues of infidelity. If none are found, they often manufacture them.
Instead of concentrating on building a loving relationship, they unconsciously sabotage themselves.
This is a recipe for failure, heartbreak, and unhappiness. It’s an attempt to break the following unbreakable Universal Law:
WHAT YOU RESIST, PERSISTS. AND YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU FEAR.
In other words, the fear of breakup will always lead to the breakup.
How do you prevent this? FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT, NOT WHAT YOU LOST OR DON’T WANT. For example, a fat person cannot get in shape if she/he keeps thinking about how fat she/he is. A poor man cannot get rich if he keeps thinking about how broke he is. And a lover who wants to have a great relationship cannot achieve it if she/he keeps thinking about how it will come to an end.
If you want a happy, loving life again, instead of thinking about how heartbroken you are, THINK ABOUT HOW HAPPY YOUR FUTURE IS.
Let go of the past hurt. The past is past.
In the case of a broken heart, you can never fully recover until you quit being a victim, realize that love and the feelings of love is UNDER YOUR CONTROL, and be certain that YOU ARE AT CAUSE. It’s you, not anybody else that feeds the heartbreak monster.
Think again. Think hard!
When two people are together and one person is in love, who is doing the loving? Who is not doing the loving? Who will be (or not be) heartbroken if the relationship ends?
- You Cannot Be “In Love” Unless You are Loving -
Read this again: YOU CANNOT BE “IN LOVE” UNLESS YOU ARE LOVING.
This Life Truth, this Universal Law, operates whether you are conscious of it or not.
From the beginning of time, whether accidentally or by design, people have enjoyed the results or suffered the consequences, of following or going against this law. The Law is eternal and the cause and effects will never change.
I’m not saying to never to love again. I’m not espousing the hermit lifestyle. To be reclusive is to shut out all the natural wonders of the world and to block life’s greatest gift – LOVE – from your life.
But what I am saying is this: LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. That’s right. Love yourself. Be your own best friend. Accept your weaknesses to fully celebrate your special gifts and unique talents. It is all you. Love all of it. Look in the mirror each morning and say that you are becoming your own hero.
Loving yourself attracts others who will love you. You become a magnet for positive, beautiful people. Those people can and will love you in a way you’ve never been loved before. Those people will feel safe, comfortable, and excited to be around you.
This is because you have finally learned “The Illusive Secret of Happiness.”
- What is “The Illusive Secret of Happiness”? -
The “Illusive Secret of Happiness” is this:
YOU DON’T NEED ANYTHING EXTERNAL, ANYTHING OR ANYONE OUTSIDE YOURSELF, TO BE HAPPY AND LOVING.
Once you realize this profound insight, you don’t pressure other people (or external events) to “make” you happy. You are free to love abundantly. The more love you share unconditionally, the more love you attract.
You then have the ability to FORGIVE TOTALLY. You forgive yourself and you forgive all who have wronged you in the past. You do this for yourself, not for the wrongdoers. With each act of forgiveness, you feel lighter, happier, and stronger to love even more!
It’s a great, never-ending cycle that can’t be adequately described in words. You’ve got to feel it to believe it.
My personal description? It’s a delicious feeling. It’s the feeling I get when I see the first sun’s rays on my beautiful girlfriend’s lovely face. Then I thank my lucky stars (that is, I AM UTTERLY GRATEFUL) that I am me and I have the opportunity to love her.
This is the last, but not least ingredient for healing a broken heart and being happy – GRATEFULNESS.
BE THANKFUL. BE TRULY GRATEFUL. THANK THE (UNIVERSE, GOD, THE INFINITE INTELLIGENCE, ETC.) FOR ALL THE LOVE AND HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE.
This automatically attracts more of the same!
This I choose to do.
The fact that I know that it’s my choice to love that causes my feelings of being “in love” doesn’t lessen the joy of the experience. I observe AND fully enjoy the joy, the wonder of each loving moment.
So if you’re suffering from heartbreak, find comfort in the words of this article.
(I recommend that you copy the following affirmations into another document, print it out, and post it in plain sight. Or privately, keep them handy in your purse or wallet. Read them AND FEEL THEM several times a day. It will instantly make you happier and stronger).
1. I AM AT CAUSE. I CAUSE MY OWN FEELINGS OF BEING IN LOVE - NO ONE ELSE DOES THIS FOR ME, BUT ME. PERIOD.
2. I HAVE THE POWER TO CONTROL AND CHANGE ANY FEELINGS I HAVE. I CHOOSE MY THOUGHTS WELL.
3. I KNOW THAT I HAVE TO BE LOVING TO FEEL “IN LOVE.” (CONVERSELY, I CAN’T BE “IN LOVE” UNLESS I AM LOVING).
4. ANYTHING I RESIST, PERSISTS. AND I ATTRACT WHAT I FEAR. I NOW FOCUS ON WHAT I WANT, NOT WHAT I THINK I LOST OR DON’T WANT.
5. I NOW LET GO OF THE PAST. THE PAST IS PAST. I MOVE ON. I’M OVER IT.
6. I FORGIVE, FORGIVE, AND FORGIVE!
7. I SMILE ALL THE TIME BECAUSE I KNOW “THE ILLUSIVE SECRET OF HAPPINESS.” IT’S ALL UP TO ME. I DON’T NEED ANYTHING EXTERNAL, ANYTHING OR ANYONE OUTSIDE MYSELF, TO BE HAPPY AND LOVING.
8. I AM THANKFUL, TRULY GRATEFUL. I THANK THE (UNIVERSE, GOD, THE INFINITE INTELLIGENCE, ETC.) FOR ALL THE LOVE AND HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE. I KNOW IT ATTRACTS MORE OF THE SAME INTO MY LIFE.
Wishing you more Living, Loving, Laughing, Learning, and Legacy building – It’s what you were meant to do…
About the Author
About the Author:
He is a retired U.S. Military veteran. Believing that school was too boring, he dropped out of High School early; only to earn an A.A., B.S., and MBA in less than 4 years much later in life – while working full-time as a Navy/Marine Corps Medic. In spite of a fear of heights and deep water, he free-fall parachuted out of airplanes and performed diving ops in very deep, open ocean water. He went to Thailand 1 year ago for a week’s vacation, fell into a teaching job, and has never left!
Carl Pantejo, Pantejo@ynvurcepublishing.com
Author, "My Friend Yu - The Prosperity Mentor”
Founder, Y.N. Vurce Publishing
http://www.ynvurcepublishing.com
can u please tell me a real life hero with infinite level of stupidity?
a real life hero with infinite level of stupidity that people cant accept